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Supervisor Carpenter, Councilman O'Connor and Samantha

July 24th, 2020 Islip Supervisor Angie Carpenter along with Councilman James P. O’Connor recently met socially distanced with Brentwood senior Samantha Barbera to honor her for winning the Life’s WORC/The Family Center of Autism, Schneps Media and Claire Friedlander Family Foundation Essay Contest.


Samantha was one of over 70 students who submitted an essay on the topic “How Can I Lead My School and Community to Become a Bully-free Place for Individuals with Autism and Developmental Disabilities.” Samantha’s essay used her experience of being the younger sister to a brother with autism and focused on ways she’s personally helped to create a better community for those with developmental disabilities.

“Samantha possesses a compassion that is well beyond her years,” said Islip Supervisor Angie Carpenter. “Her enthusiasm to create an environment of acceptance for individuals with Autism and developmental disabilities is genuine, and is borne out of her own personal experiences. She is well-deserving of this recognition. On behalf of the Islip Town Board, we wish her tremendous success in her future endeavors,” concluded the Supervisor.

“As the parent of a 23-year old autistic son, Samantha’s efforts and her works of kindness in her school touched my heart! Bullying should never be accepted, but sometimes people bully others out of insecurity or ignorance. Samantha’s initiatives to educate her school community about the impact of bullying of people with autism, in her case, her older brother - Anthony, are AMAZING! Most amazing was Samantha’s reminder to have fun while educating others. Her approach to use a fun environment with fun activities, like dance parties, will help to engage and inspire others to take a stance against bullying. I congratulate Samantha on her award-winning essay. I know she will do great, and I am optimistic for Islip’s future thanks to Samantha Barbera.” – James P. O’Connor, Islip Town Councilman & Chair, Town of Islip Disability Advisory Board

Below, is Samantha’s winning essay submission to the contest.

I can lead my school and community to become a bully-free place for individuals with autism and developmental disabilities by helping others to embrace differences and see the joy in doing so. Teenagers are generally self-serving, and tend to cut down anyone who stands apart from the group. In my experience of being the little sister to my autistic brother, I've spent my life wrestling with the difficulties of intolerance that permeates in our society towards the autistic. From defending my brother against the ignorant, to laughing with him as we go on rides at an amusement park, I believe we can achieve a place of acceptance for all. The first step in becoming bully-free is to understand what developmental delays are. In my experience from living with my brother for eighteen years, I can see that socializing is difficult. During April of my junior year, I met with my teachers and convinced them to share a video entitled, “Amazing Things Happen - by Alexander Amelines, as a way of spreading autism awareness. This film gives an introduction to non-autistic audiences about autism, in a fun and easy-to-understand way. It can be used to spark a conversation. Another great video is “Autism TMI Virtual Reality Experience," which shows what's possibly going on when a person melts down. It offers a perspective of what happens when an autistic person goes into a public space, like a mall or school hallway. Empathy is a great educational tool. Everyone has been somewhere and felt overwhelmed by things that are typical. It gives us common ground.

The second step is educating others. I planned on forming an Autism Awareness Club in my senior year before the pandemic hit. Autism Awareness Club members should be connected to autism in some way, or simply passionate about helping others. The mission of the club would be to educate through experiential learning. We would receive training on how best to successfully interact. The members of the group would be rewarded with “volunteer-time," but also with self-gratification that can only be achieved through helping others.

The third step is fundraising and having fun. Gathering money would allow more opportunities for connecting, socializing, and fun - for the autistic and typical alike. It serves the self-interest of non-autistic participants, while creating friendships through their interactions, resulting in a drastic decrease in bullying. By sharing fun memories, and tailoring them to meet the needs of the delayed, the neuro-typical peers would feel connected, maybe even protective, of their new friends, and everyone wins. Once, I helped create a dance class for autistic children. Each of the children got a typical child-partner to help them learn group dances heard at parties, like Cotton-Eyed Joe. All of the participants had fun, volunteers and dancers alike. It was magical to see all of the children shine. By reaching out to those with delays, and bringing us together in a thoughtfully fun way, I can lead my school and community into a bully-free space for all.

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